Practical Guidelines To Have The Relationship You Want

You can have the relationship you want even if you are ready to throw in the towel and give up on your relationship. Don’t give up just yet. It’s never too late to have a better marriage as long as you and your partner are willing to give it one more try.

Healthy Relationships Require Time, Patience & Effort

We live in a world of fast food, instant communications, five minute marriage ceremonies and quickie divorces. You can have the relationship you want, but it will take time, effort and patience to create it.

Think about it. Did the relationship problems you’re currently facing start yesterday? Probably not. More than likely, your marriage may have been on a downhill slide for months or perhaps even years.

Seeking help to have the relationship you want is only the first step in the right direction. Putting in the work to undo whatever harm may already have been done and achieve the results and the happiness you long for will take some time. But it is well worth the effort.

To expect to have the relationship you want instantly, is almost like praying to God for patience and then telling him you want it now. Ironic right?

If there was ever a time you needed to develop patience, that time would be now. So develop the patience needed to get your relationship back on track.

Most relationships experience trouble over a period of time-- little arguments go unresolved, resentments start to set in, small things become big things and suddenly you realize your marriage is on the rocks, and that’s when you “wake up” and ask yourself: how did we get here?

Create The Relationship You Want By Improving Yourself

In order to have the relationship you want, you will have to create it yourself. That means you have to work at making your relationship the loving lasting union it was supposed to be. Many women make the mistake of trying to change their partner. That’s the first mistake.

Instead of putting your energy into changing him, it may be better to focus your energies on improving who you are.

Are you the kind of wife that is easy to love, honor and cherish? Are you supportive, encouraging, forgiving? Is your home a welcoming, warm haven of rest that your partner can look forward to coming home to? Do you put his happiness ahead of your own?

Your answers to those questions could reveal key areas you may need to work on in order to have the relationship you desire.

Become The Kind Of Woman You Were Meant To Be

Don’t underestimate the power of one! That one being YOU! You may be amazed at how small changes in your attitude can trigger BIG changes in your spouse.

You may be able to have the relationship you want by simply becoming the kind of woman you were born to be.

• Confident, yet humble.
• Self reliant yet interdependent.
• Determined, yet yielding and submissive when necessary.
• Outspoken, yet respectful and God fearing.
• Ambitious, yet generous and kind.

Somehow as “liberated” women, we have taken the challenge of living and working in a male dominated world to an extreme degree. In the process, we have lost touch with our true female strengths that lie deep within.

As women, we actually have the potential and the power to change the world, because behind every powerful man in the world stands a woman and the hands that rock the cradle can actually rule the world. All this without ever taking office or occupying positions of influence and power. Women have the power to change the world from the privacy of their homes.

Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that women should confine themselves to home life and domestic duties. Far from it. I am saying that as women we may have inadvertently become the victims of our own “liberation”.

You can have the relationship you want, by finding your way back to the female strengths that you have deep within.

How To Become A Truly Capable Woman

I remember when I read bible book of Proverbs Chapter 31 for the first time. I was floored by the profound truths and far-reaching power which that chapter revealed about the strengths of a capable woman. That’s when I realized that as a woman the power to change my life and my relationships for the better, really was in my hands.

You CAN have the relationship you want, but it will require following the timeless, godly wisdom found in the bible. It’s up to you to acquire that wisdom and it’s up to you to apply it!

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